Tuesday, October 24, 2006

My Diwali-2006


Diwali is the festival of light, happiness, fireworks, sweets..

I
always miss my home the most on diwali as I did not get the chance of being with my family on past few diwalis..I had to face the same state on this diwali also!! This time I had decided to enjoy the festival with full zest and to stay in high spirits..

As usual,It was a working day here. I thought of taking a half day off which I do on the Indian festivals. I was please to know that my Thai Boss knew about diwali as it is some what similar to a Thai festival Loykrotong (festival of light) which is not as grand as diwali. I was overwhelmed when I got the full day leave.

Early morning on diwali I received a call from parents wishing me and asking about office, they were also please to know that I got a day off...next two hours went on online chat to them, discussing about diwali plans and messaging everyone for the festival.

After the chat I started my day with cleaning my apartment to get the feel of 'Diwali ki Safai' which although was very late but hardly took an hour to get over. Noon was approaching and I had an invitation from an Indian family to attend the diwali pooja at their place in afternoon. I took out the new salwar kameez from my wardrobe which was sent recently from India. I dressed up myself in new outfit and accessories - bangles, earrings , necklace and bindi. I got a special feeling..I adored myself as I glanced in mirror I was looking a princess!!

I attended the diwali poojan which was a formal one with punditji enchanting the hymns and all aartis to please Lord Ganesha and Goddess Lakshami.The deities were offered many types of sweets, milk, curd and fruits. All this was distributed later as prasad. The Pooja lasted for two hours. I had a nice feast and a got lovely present.

At dusk, I was back home. I lit some candles and did pooja with my brother in my own little way. In between I was getting phone calls from family and friends. It gave me tremendous pleasure to wish and get the good wishes.

As preplanned I went out for a dinner to have authentic Indian cuisine where my friends also joined me. None of us is an expert to cook for a feast. So we decided to go for an Indian restaurant. Although the bookings was not made but there was enough space to accommodate nine people. It was a delight for us as our Christian and Muslim friends also joined and were equally enthusiastic on the festival. Our table was full of varied dishes from Biryani to Kadai Paneer, from Butter naan to Bhatura. Every one enjoyed the Jalebis which arrived surprisingly as a complementary on Diwali. While chatting to the friends, I realized that all were sailing in the same boat and although all were far away from their families yet everyone was cheerful while sharing their joys and good wishes with each other. The only missing part was fireworks which were played in limited areas and we couldn't got there.


When I went to the bed, I was satisfied the way I had celebrated my diwali. Festivals are special as they get so much of delight, pleasure, good spirits and positive energy with them. They know no boundaries, the special feelings should come from within self and these are reflected outside in the form of joys and goodness.

Friday, October 13, 2006

LIFE

Life is a riddle, a mystery. We do not know what is going to happen next...Sometimes its a joyous ride but at times it becomes a journey of miseries.....What is life..where are we upto....what will be the end....often these questions puzzle me.....A big question mark....Life is a mix bag of emotions, hopes, desires, success, failures, ups and downs!!! every one has to live his share of life.....cheerfull or moron depends on person to person and also the situations he is surrounded with!!

Life is a precious gift....In all thick and thins we shall never forget to thank Lord almighty for showering His blessings and providing us wonderful life...we are the puppets He is the magician... we are the artists He is the writer.

Life is a question and also its answer.

Sunday, October 01, 2006

Pains and Gains

I remember that moment at Chennai airport, midnight, when I was about to part from my parents for unknown period...tears were about to roll but I stopped them with faint smile on my face... Same was the case with them , after checking in..I sobbed!!As a saying goes "no pains no gains" but the pain of missing dear ones is indeed tough. Tough are the times when has to work or study on festivals like Diwali or Holi without having any air of that, or else taking half day off and attending Poojans at Indian family.. it infact enhances an intense feeling of attending home festivities. Tough are the times when didn’t know from where to purchase color on Holi and used turmeric powder instead, to mark the festival.Missing all the roadside chaats, panipuris, goodies. Miss watching Hindi movies on big screen. Miss the neighborhoods where you can enter anytime and chitchat.Miss the warm, cozy feeling of home.

I also remember the day when I landed at Jaipur almost after one and half years , again my parents were there to receive but was utterly surprised to see as they were not looking the same, gray hair had increased with some wrinkles on the skin, they got aged !!! My home town was almost the same except increase in more vehicles on roads. I also got to know about granny’s sickness, the demise of few of family and known during my absence. I wondered it was never told to me but the celebrations, marriages, merry makings were well informed.Gains encourage to face and live the life. There is always a satisfaction of becoming a better and self dependent person. Lord has showered me with his blessings. Most important, I inculcated a thinking of staying optimistic. Still awaiting to get back sweet home and spending quality time with dear ones before heading towards next step.

Life is beautiful ...take it the way it comes!!